Playing, enjoying nature and life’s abundance are in fact the best and most efficient ways to travel to where you desire to go to on your path.
Have fun! Its very productive!!
STEPPING BACK FROM "THE CRIME OF SERIOUSNESS!"
It’s called vacation, folks, and as I’ve often said, vacations are not a luxury item in an actualized life, but rather a necessary reminder of how to properly live. A channeled entity once warned me back in the 1980's to be careful not to commit "the crime of seriousness" in my life. I have tried to heed that advice.
Playing, enjoying nature and life’s abundance are in fact the best and most efficient ways to travel to where you desire to go to on your path.
Have fun! Its very productive!!
Playing, enjoying nature and life’s abundance are in fact the best and most efficient ways to travel to where you desire to go to on your path.
Have fun! Its very productive!!
IT'S HAPPENING!
Have you noticed what's happening around you lately?
People all around the world are hearing "sounds" (See "THE HUM HEARD ROUND THE WORLD" and "ANGELS IN THE ARCHITECTURE! (MORE ON THE HUM HEARD ROUND THE WORLD!").
There's been a dramatic, full scale decline of violence of every kind - war deaths, family violence, racism, rape, murder (See "The Better Angels of Our Nature: Why Violence Has Declined,", in which prominent Harvard psychologist Steven Pinker writes: "Statistics reveal dramatic reductions in war deaths, family violence, racism, rape, murder and all sorts of mayhem. The decline of violence may be the most significant and least appreciated development in the history of our species.").
5-year olds are hitting major league fastballs.
7 year olds are charming Ellen Degeneres and then playing virtuoso piano on command.
Folks, this is 5D. Miracles are the result of nature unimpeded. It's happening. We're doing it. Congratulations!
People all around the world are hearing "sounds" (See "THE HUM HEARD ROUND THE WORLD" and "ANGELS IN THE ARCHITECTURE! (MORE ON THE HUM HEARD ROUND THE WORLD!").
There's been a dramatic, full scale decline of violence of every kind - war deaths, family violence, racism, rape, murder (See "The Better Angels of Our Nature: Why Violence Has Declined,", in which prominent Harvard psychologist Steven Pinker writes: "Statistics reveal dramatic reductions in war deaths, family violence, racism, rape, murder and all sorts of mayhem. The decline of violence may be the most significant and least appreciated development in the history of our species.").
5-year olds are hitting major league fastballs.
7 year olds are charming Ellen Degeneres and then playing virtuoso piano on command.
Folks, this is 5D. Miracles are the result of nature unimpeded. It's happening. We're doing it. Congratulations!
HAPPY FIRST DAY OF SUMMER! THE SUN NOT ONLY PREVENTS CANCER, IT IMPROVES EYESIGHT!! CELEBRATE THE SOLSTICE!!!
This is a piece I wrote around this time a few years ago, celebrating the beginning of summer and the healing power of the sun, and the misconceptions that the old 3D medical establishment promoted to inspire fear in our populace.
Enjoy!
There was an article in the New York Times that described something many have intuitively known and experienced as real for many years, that bright sunlight is good for your eyes. The piece is entitled: "THE SUN IS THE BEST OPTOMETRIST," and it makes the claim that "the rapid increase in nearsightedness appears to be due to a characteristic of modern life: more and more time spent indoors under artificial lights."
The entire short article is definitely worth reading.
Here's an excerpt from a piece by one Dr. Frank Lipman, an Integrative Physician whose personal blend of Western and Eastern Medicine combined with the many other complimentary modalities he has studied, has helped thousands of people recover their energy and zest for life:
"For the last 30 years or so, doctors (dermatologists in particular), health officials, beauty experts and many product companies have been demonizing the sun. They've told us to avoid it because without sunscreen, exposure to the sun's rays will damage skin and cause cancer. But this oversimplification distorts the facts. In the past few years, numerous studies have shown that optimizing your vitamin D levels may actually help prevent as many as 16 different types of cancer including pancreatic, lung, breast, ovarian, prostate and colon cancers. And the best way to optimize Vitamin D levels is through safe, smart and limited sunscreen-free exposure to the sun."
Read the rest of the piece HERE.
Okay, time for me to get to the beach!
Enjoy!
There was an article in the New York Times that described something many have intuitively known and experienced as real for many years, that bright sunlight is good for your eyes. The piece is entitled: "THE SUN IS THE BEST OPTOMETRIST," and it makes the claim that "the rapid increase in nearsightedness appears to be due to a characteristic of modern life: more and more time spent indoors under artificial lights."
The entire short article is definitely worth reading.
Here's an excerpt from a piece by one Dr. Frank Lipman, an Integrative Physician whose personal blend of Western and Eastern Medicine combined with the many other complimentary modalities he has studied, has helped thousands of people recover their energy and zest for life:
"For the last 30 years or so, doctors (dermatologists in particular), health officials, beauty experts and many product companies have been demonizing the sun. They've told us to avoid it because without sunscreen, exposure to the sun's rays will damage skin and cause cancer. But this oversimplification distorts the facts. In the past few years, numerous studies have shown that optimizing your vitamin D levels may actually help prevent as many as 16 different types of cancer including pancreatic, lung, breast, ovarian, prostate and colon cancers. And the best way to optimize Vitamin D levels is through safe, smart and limited sunscreen-free exposure to the sun."
Read the rest of the piece HERE.
Okay, time for me to get to the beach!
HEADLINE: DAUGHTER LIFTS SUV OFF OF DAD'S LEG!
When her father, Adam, became pinned under a Jeep Liberty SUV, Rachael Simmons, 22, somehow mustered the strength to lift the car off him, CBS Boston reported. Said jeep weighed-in at around 5,000 pounds.
Take a breath. You've all heard of stories like this. In a moment of non-thinking impulse, very often when a loved one is in harm's way, physical limitations are transcended and super-human feats are possible. These events have confounded those who trade strictly in linear, dualistic, 3D consciousness. They try to pass it off as "adrenaline" rushes or with some other pseudo-biological explanation.
Right. 5,000 pounds. Adrenaline. Yeah, that's the ticket!
When I was a kid, we used to practice "levitation." We would lift up the largest member of our group of friends, using only 2 fingers. All we had to do, including the big guy, was focus on believing that he was "light as a feather," and up he went, over our heads with only 2 fingers each under him.
What makes such "impossible" feats possible? The suspension of our personal and collective beliefs in physical limitation, a suspension made easier by the power of protective love or the innocence of youth, but deep meditation can also accomplish such transcendence, allowing yogic masters to levitate themselves, walk on hot coals without getting burned, lie down on a bed of nails without being penetrated, etc. Like the placebo effect, which I have written about HERE, if we understand what these events tell us, it should change everything, because it points to this simple yet profound truth:
We create our reality from our beliefs.
That's the message we are reminding ourselves of whenever we transcend physical limitations in such striking ways. The boundaries we have all believed in for so long, by collective agreement, are nothing more than the rules of the game we have been playing - 3rd dimensional physical life.
Linear time, limited space, gravity, separateness from each other and All That Is... all no more "real" than we've agreed that they are. And of course, to keep the beliefs in these limitations in place effectively, so we could thoroughly experience the 3D game, we have had to suppress out of awareness the fact that the rules are indeed just beliefs.
The recent shift to 5th dimensional consciousness has begun the awakening process and signaled the end of the game. We have played it out, and quite frankly become tired of limitation. Though we still remain physical, and still experience time as linear, space as limited, and gravity and separateness as real, the rigidity of those parameters and boundaries are noticeably loosening up. We can now more readily play with time and space as only the yogis have been able to do in the past, and we are becoming more and more aware of our oneness with others and the universe at large.
This should be fun, folks!
Oh, and just a word of caution: work on making your beliefs conscious before you try this at home...
Take a breath. You've all heard of stories like this. In a moment of non-thinking impulse, very often when a loved one is in harm's way, physical limitations are transcended and super-human feats are possible. These events have confounded those who trade strictly in linear, dualistic, 3D consciousness. They try to pass it off as "adrenaline" rushes or with some other pseudo-biological explanation.
Right. 5,000 pounds. Adrenaline. Yeah, that's the ticket!
When I was a kid, we used to practice "levitation." We would lift up the largest member of our group of friends, using only 2 fingers. All we had to do, including the big guy, was focus on believing that he was "light as a feather," and up he went, over our heads with only 2 fingers each under him.
What makes such "impossible" feats possible? The suspension of our personal and collective beliefs in physical limitation, a suspension made easier by the power of protective love or the innocence of youth, but deep meditation can also accomplish such transcendence, allowing yogic masters to levitate themselves, walk on hot coals without getting burned, lie down on a bed of nails without being penetrated, etc. Like the placebo effect, which I have written about HERE, if we understand what these events tell us, it should change everything, because it points to this simple yet profound truth:
We create our reality from our beliefs.
That's the message we are reminding ourselves of whenever we transcend physical limitations in such striking ways. The boundaries we have all believed in for so long, by collective agreement, are nothing more than the rules of the game we have been playing - 3rd dimensional physical life.
Linear time, limited space, gravity, separateness from each other and All That Is... all no more "real" than we've agreed that they are. And of course, to keep the beliefs in these limitations in place effectively, so we could thoroughly experience the 3D game, we have had to suppress out of awareness the fact that the rules are indeed just beliefs.
The recent shift to 5th dimensional consciousness has begun the awakening process and signaled the end of the game. We have played it out, and quite frankly become tired of limitation. Though we still remain physical, and still experience time as linear, space as limited, and gravity and separateness as real, the rigidity of those parameters and boundaries are noticeably loosening up. We can now more readily play with time and space as only the yogis have been able to do in the past, and we are becoming more and more aware of our oneness with others and the universe at large.
This should be fun, folks!
Oh, and just a word of caution: work on making your beliefs conscious before you try this at home...
REPOST: "WHY AREN'T YOU RICH?!"
This is a post from the FPL archives that was originally inspired over 4 years ago by the breaking stories about one Bernie Madoff, con artist supreme who bilked billions out of his investment clients.
Enjoy!
Here's a beauty! A breaking news story tells the tale of a "Wall Street Wizard," one Bernard L. Madoff, who has bilked investors out of $50 billion over the last decade employing the old "Ponzi scheme" of using one person's money to pay off another person until you take the money and run, leaving the last ones in screwed.
So what? Just another story of corruption and deceit by another rich Wall Street psychopath? Right. The rich get rich and then get richer because they are scoundrels, crooks, liars, thieves, etc., right? Well, actually, no. The rich get rich and then richer because they don't fear being rich. Now, it is true that if they acquire their wealth through psychopathic manipulation, sooner or later their Higher Self will trip them up in a self-corrective collapse and exposure.
But my question to you this morning is this: Why aren't you rich?
Wouldn't it be a great message for the world if there were more heart-centered, honest, self-aware, emotionally and spiritually connected people who were wealthy? People who acquired their wealth by doing what they love to do with love, creating something of beauty or practical value with joy and brilliance? Wouldn't that feel like a Universe more in balance, more the way it should be?
Well, get on it, folks! Your resistance to abundance is exactly that. Money is not the root of all evil. Money is just a means of exchange, neutral in and of itself, so why are you allowing only the crooks and liars to have it? What are your fears of abundance or your fears that prevent abundance from coming to you?
This is from a MUST READ Pathwork Guide Lecture: "FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR."
"As long as you have fear, it is sometimes inevitable that you experience what you fear in order to lose the fear. If you desire health in a spirit of fearing sickness, you prevent health. If you fear the aging process, you prevent eternal youth. If you fear loneliness, you prevent real companionship. If you fear companionship, you prevent self-containment. So it goes on and on. If you fear poverty, you prevent abundance."
Read the rest of the lecture HERE.
Hey...
Enjoy!
Here's a beauty! A breaking news story tells the tale of a "Wall Street Wizard," one Bernard L. Madoff, who has bilked investors out of $50 billion over the last decade employing the old "Ponzi scheme" of using one person's money to pay off another person until you take the money and run, leaving the last ones in screwed.
So what? Just another story of corruption and deceit by another rich Wall Street psychopath? Right. The rich get rich and then get richer because they are scoundrels, crooks, liars, thieves, etc., right? Well, actually, no. The rich get rich and then richer because they don't fear being rich. Now, it is true that if they acquire their wealth through psychopathic manipulation, sooner or later their Higher Self will trip them up in a self-corrective collapse and exposure.
But my question to you this morning is this: Why aren't you rich?
Wouldn't it be a great message for the world if there were more heart-centered, honest, self-aware, emotionally and spiritually connected people who were wealthy? People who acquired their wealth by doing what they love to do with love, creating something of beauty or practical value with joy and brilliance? Wouldn't that feel like a Universe more in balance, more the way it should be?
Well, get on it, folks! Your resistance to abundance is exactly that. Money is not the root of all evil. Money is just a means of exchange, neutral in and of itself, so why are you allowing only the crooks and liars to have it? What are your fears of abundance or your fears that prevent abundance from coming to you?
This is from a MUST READ Pathwork Guide Lecture: "FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR."
"As long as you have fear, it is sometimes inevitable that you experience what you fear in order to lose the fear. If you desire health in a spirit of fearing sickness, you prevent health. If you fear the aging process, you prevent eternal youth. If you fear loneliness, you prevent real companionship. If you fear companionship, you prevent self-containment. So it goes on and on. If you fear poverty, you prevent abundance."
Read the rest of the lecture HERE.
Hey...
Rich...
...versus Rich!
THE SUN CURES CANCER AND HEALS YOUR EYES!
Here's an excerpt from a piece entitled: "Vitamin D Health: Why You Shouldn't Shun the Sun!":
"For the last 30 years or so, doctors (dermatologists in particular), health officials, beauty experts and many product companies have been demonizing the sun. They've told us to avoid it because without sunscreen, exposure to the sun's rays will damage skin and cause cancer. But this oversimplification distorts the facts. In the past few years, numerous studies have shown thatoptimizing your vitamin D levels may actually help prevent as many as 16 different types of cancer including pancreatic, lung, breast, ovarian, prostate and colon cancers. And the best way to optimize Vitamin D levels is through safe, smart and limited sunscreen-free exposure to the sun."
Read the rest of the above piece HERE.
And while you're at it...
Here's an article that was in the New York Times a couple of years ago that described something I have experienced as real for many years - that bright sunlight is good for your eyes. The piece is entitled: "THE SUN IS THE BEST OPTOMETRIST," and it makes the claim that "the rapid increase in nearsightedness appears to be due to a characteristic of modern life: more and more time spent indoors under artificial lights."
The entire short article is definitely worth reading.
Believe your eyes, folks, not the medical-pharmaceutical complex! Do you think the Universe would play such a sadistic trick as making that which gives life to everything on this planet deadly to us?
"For the last 30 years or so, doctors (dermatologists in particular), health officials, beauty experts and many product companies have been demonizing the sun. They've told us to avoid it because without sunscreen, exposure to the sun's rays will damage skin and cause cancer. But this oversimplification distorts the facts. In the past few years, numerous studies have shown thatoptimizing your vitamin D levels may actually help prevent as many as 16 different types of cancer including pancreatic, lung, breast, ovarian, prostate and colon cancers. And the best way to optimize Vitamin D levels is through safe, smart and limited sunscreen-free exposure to the sun."
Read the rest of the above piece HERE.
And while you're at it...
Here's an article that was in the New York Times a couple of years ago that described something I have experienced as real for many years - that bright sunlight is good for your eyes. The piece is entitled: "THE SUN IS THE BEST OPTOMETRIST," and it makes the claim that "the rapid increase in nearsightedness appears to be due to a characteristic of modern life: more and more time spent indoors under artificial lights."
The entire short article is definitely worth reading.
Believe your eyes, folks, not the medical-pharmaceutical complex! Do you think the Universe would play such a sadistic trick as making that which gives life to everything on this planet deadly to us?
TODAY'S QUOTE!
"Manifestation is giving yourself the ability to realize that what you desire is already here, making the invisible visible."
Bashar
Bashar
"90+": A MUST WATCH VIDEO!!
I have written a great deal about the illusions of the "aging process." Read some of the posts HERE.
But right now, WATCH THIS VIDEO!
(Especially if you think you're getting old... or ever will.)
But right now, WATCH THIS VIDEO!
(Especially if you think you're getting old... or ever will.)
TODAY'S FAVORITE MOVIE DIALOGUE QUOTE!
Mac (Frederic March): Funny how two people can start from the same point and drift apart.
Henry (Spencer Tracy): It's the nature of the life process.
Mac: There use to be a mutuality of understanding and admiration between us Henry.
Why is it, my old friend, that you've moved so far away from me?
Henry: Well, all motion is relative Mac. Maybe it's you who have moved away... by standing still.
(From Inherit the Wind)
MORE ON THE BENEFITS OF COFFEE (AND FOLLOWING YOUR PLEASURE PRINCIPLE)!
THE TRUTH ABOUT EVERYTHING, PART SIX: WE ARE NOT ALL THE SAME!
No, I'm not just trying to be provocative or politically incorrect here in sharing this sixth installment of The Truth About Everything: "We are not all the same." I do understand, though, that people may find this truth and this particular blog post offensive at first blush. But hear me out.
Of course, in our society, we are all (at least technically) equal under the law, and equally entitled to our "inalienable rights" to "life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness." And more deeply, everyone on Earth is part of the great oneness of All That Is, and all living beings are worthy of unconditional love, as set forth in Truth #2. None are abandoned by Source. Ever.
However... a main cause of many personal and social conflicts, even of wars, is that we do not recognize that we are also different from each other in some very significant ways, and I am not referring to customs or languages, but something essentially much deeper.
For several years in the 1990s, I struggled with a riddle as a therapist. Why would some patients I worked with in therapy progress further and more rapidly than others when their overall character structure, relative backgrounds, childhood experiences and genuine commitment to their process was pretty much the same, and my approach and commitment as their therapist was a constant? What was the "X factor" in my clients' progressions through their self-work? Why did some seem to have different "ceilings" or thresholds as to how far they were able to raise their consciousnesses?
At a certain point in my pondering, I began drawing the conclusion that it must be a soul/energy issue. In other words, it seemed to me that some human beings incarnated with more of their Higher Self consciousness in tow, so to speak. I thought, perhaps in the same way that we devote different amounts of energy to different areas of our lives - work, love, child-rearing, leisure - maybe our Higher Selves invest different amounts of energy into different lifetimes. This idea seemed to work, seemed to make sense, but yet I didn't feel quite settled with it.
Then, not shortly after I considered the above idea, I came across a book called, "Upcoming Changes," by Joya Pope. The book was interesting enough until I got to the chapters on "Soul Ages." As I eagerly read that material, the proverbial lightbulb went off big time. Click. Click. Click. Yes. Yes. Yes. Now, it made sense.
The information Pope channeled basically laid out systematically and eloquently how just as human beings go through a physical developmental process, so too do our spiritual selves go through a process of growth and evolution. In other words, just as we grow from babies to adults physically over the course of one lifetime, our souls also evolve over many lifetimes through stages similar to infancy, childhood, adolescence, adulthood and elder. Her descriptions of the various soul ages were so spot on, and the implications so profound, that they dramatically effected my understanding of people, and of our world, not to mention shifting the way I worked and thought as a therapist.
Here's Joya Pope on Soul Ages:
"On each physical plane, existence changes and deepens the essence's point of view. This involves going through developmental levels - Infant, Baby, Young, Mature, and Old Soul. This is an extraordinarily long 'game' we are talking about, at least from the earthly perspective. Soul age refers to how a person has grown from experience on the planet, not just to how many lifetimes he or she has lived. No person, essence or entity is "ahead" or "behind" any other, but is simply occupying another place in the continuous circle leading to and from the Tao. Ways of being are supposed to be different in different developmental stages; at some point we experience it all, moving continually along to different levels of understanding and responsibility."
Wow! So, just as there are physical babies, there are baby souls. Just as there are physical adults, there are adult souls. Etc. Etc. And just as it would be irrational to expect a physical baby to be able to feed and shelter itself, or to drive a car or have sex, it is equally irrational to expect a baby soul, even in an adult physical body, to attain higher states of consciousness much beyond the accomplishments of reflex and survival. Baby souls, in other words, generally live simple lives, with simplistic beliefs, focused on getting their basic needs met, very often by seeking others to manage the provision of those needs.
Here's Joya Pope on one aspect of baby souls:
"Structure helps Baby Souls to feel comfortable in the world. They want to be directed and therefore seek out higher authorities who are willing to lay out clear rules for them. As a small example of this, they would rarely defend their child to the school principal, but push to make the child act acceptably to the teachers and administration. Sometimes a Baby Soul will seek out - even again and again - discipline from the prison system as a way to civilize himself. This soul age will hold traditional religious leaders in esteem, turn doctors into gods, and likely feel their country, their army, and certain politicians, can do no wrong."
[Not to be political here, but obviously, the so-called "Conservative Movement" in our society could perhaps more accurately be called the "Baby Soul Society." Sorry, I couldn't resist.]
The personal and social ramifications of this understanding, or the lack of it, are tremendous.
If you are a mature soul and you mistakenly assume that your young soul boyfriend is also a mature soul, you will conclude in frustration that his self-centered egotism is a deliberate assault on your integrity, rather than a measure of his "immaturity" at the soul level. Instead of accepting who he is, and moving on to a relationship with someone who is on your level, you will stay and fight, futilely, to try and get him to be someone he is not yet ready to be.
Likewise, if a predominantly mature soul country, like the United States (believe it or not), assumes that baby soul countries, like Iraq or Afghanistan, are maturational equals (in spite of the fact that they require women to hide their faces, still publicly stone people to death for adultery and commit suicide in hopes that there will be virgins in Heaven for them to have sex with), then we will uselessly bomb them into oblivion instead of helping them feel more secure and less threatened in the world, while simultaneously setting appropriate boundaries and restrictions (disarming them) on what they are allowed to do within the human community. (And remember, it is in the mistaken belief that they could be equal partners that we sold them many of their weapons in the first place.)
Now, like all of these Truths About Everything, one's first reaction to this one might be that the information presented here is not only radical, but potentially inflammatory. But would be a misunderstanding. As Shakespeare said: "All the world's a stage and all the men and women merely players." In other words, if life here in our world is a play, which essentially it is, then each of us, whatever role we play, is an actor whose role at any given time in the play may be of child or adult, villain or hero, leader or follower, but as actors, as souls, again, we are all equally worthy of all that life has to offer.
We don't believe, of course, that a child deserves to be less safe, healthy or happy than an adult does, but we do know that a child is not ready to provide for the common good, yet, nor offer guidance, leadership or wisdom for others, yet, either. They are still learning how to survive and thrive in physical reality and must be taught this by their elders. Children, and young souls, are narcissistic by nature, in other words. Mature and old souls are more altruistic and giving by nature. This is why old souls live lifetimes primarily as teachers in one way or another.
After you read the soul age material, look around you, at everyone, and consider what soul age you are dealing with in each relationship. You will find your perspective and your levels of frustration shifting when you do. And remember, don't give the car keys to a 3-year old!
Of course, in our society, we are all (at least technically) equal under the law, and equally entitled to our "inalienable rights" to "life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness." And more deeply, everyone on Earth is part of the great oneness of All That Is, and all living beings are worthy of unconditional love, as set forth in Truth #2. None are abandoned by Source. Ever.
However... a main cause of many personal and social conflicts, even of wars, is that we do not recognize that we are also different from each other in some very significant ways, and I am not referring to customs or languages, but something essentially much deeper.
For several years in the 1990s, I struggled with a riddle as a therapist. Why would some patients I worked with in therapy progress further and more rapidly than others when their overall character structure, relative backgrounds, childhood experiences and genuine commitment to their process was pretty much the same, and my approach and commitment as their therapist was a constant? What was the "X factor" in my clients' progressions through their self-work? Why did some seem to have different "ceilings" or thresholds as to how far they were able to raise their consciousnesses?
At a certain point in my pondering, I began drawing the conclusion that it must be a soul/energy issue. In other words, it seemed to me that some human beings incarnated with more of their Higher Self consciousness in tow, so to speak. I thought, perhaps in the same way that we devote different amounts of energy to different areas of our lives - work, love, child-rearing, leisure - maybe our Higher Selves invest different amounts of energy into different lifetimes. This idea seemed to work, seemed to make sense, but yet I didn't feel quite settled with it.
Then, not shortly after I considered the above idea, I came across a book called, "Upcoming Changes," by Joya Pope. The book was interesting enough until I got to the chapters on "Soul Ages." As I eagerly read that material, the proverbial lightbulb went off big time. Click. Click. Click. Yes. Yes. Yes. Now, it made sense.
The information Pope channeled basically laid out systematically and eloquently how just as human beings go through a physical developmental process, so too do our spiritual selves go through a process of growth and evolution. In other words, just as we grow from babies to adults physically over the course of one lifetime, our souls also evolve over many lifetimes through stages similar to infancy, childhood, adolescence, adulthood and elder. Her descriptions of the various soul ages were so spot on, and the implications so profound, that they dramatically effected my understanding of people, and of our world, not to mention shifting the way I worked and thought as a therapist.
Here's Joya Pope on Soul Ages:
"On each physical plane, existence changes and deepens the essence's point of view. This involves going through developmental levels - Infant, Baby, Young, Mature, and Old Soul. This is an extraordinarily long 'game' we are talking about, at least from the earthly perspective. Soul age refers to how a person has grown from experience on the planet, not just to how many lifetimes he or she has lived. No person, essence or entity is "ahead" or "behind" any other, but is simply occupying another place in the continuous circle leading to and from the Tao. Ways of being are supposed to be different in different developmental stages; at some point we experience it all, moving continually along to different levels of understanding and responsibility."
Wow! So, just as there are physical babies, there are baby souls. Just as there are physical adults, there are adult souls. Etc. Etc. And just as it would be irrational to expect a physical baby to be able to feed and shelter itself, or to drive a car or have sex, it is equally irrational to expect a baby soul, even in an adult physical body, to attain higher states of consciousness much beyond the accomplishments of reflex and survival. Baby souls, in other words, generally live simple lives, with simplistic beliefs, focused on getting their basic needs met, very often by seeking others to manage the provision of those needs.
Here's Joya Pope on one aspect of baby souls:
"Structure helps Baby Souls to feel comfortable in the world. They want to be directed and therefore seek out higher authorities who are willing to lay out clear rules for them. As a small example of this, they would rarely defend their child to the school principal, but push to make the child act acceptably to the teachers and administration. Sometimes a Baby Soul will seek out - even again and again - discipline from the prison system as a way to civilize himself. This soul age will hold traditional religious leaders in esteem, turn doctors into gods, and likely feel their country, their army, and certain politicians, can do no wrong."
[Not to be political here, but obviously, the so-called "Conservative Movement" in our society could perhaps more accurately be called the "Baby Soul Society." Sorry, I couldn't resist.]
The personal and social ramifications of this understanding, or the lack of it, are tremendous.
If you are a mature soul and you mistakenly assume that your young soul boyfriend is also a mature soul, you will conclude in frustration that his self-centered egotism is a deliberate assault on your integrity, rather than a measure of his "immaturity" at the soul level. Instead of accepting who he is, and moving on to a relationship with someone who is on your level, you will stay and fight, futilely, to try and get him to be someone he is not yet ready to be.
Likewise, if a predominantly mature soul country, like the United States (believe it or not), assumes that baby soul countries, like Iraq or Afghanistan, are maturational equals (in spite of the fact that they require women to hide their faces, still publicly stone people to death for adultery and commit suicide in hopes that there will be virgins in Heaven for them to have sex with), then we will uselessly bomb them into oblivion instead of helping them feel more secure and less threatened in the world, while simultaneously setting appropriate boundaries and restrictions (disarming them) on what they are allowed to do within the human community. (And remember, it is in the mistaken belief that they could be equal partners that we sold them many of their weapons in the first place.)
Now, like all of these Truths About Everything, one's first reaction to this one might be that the information presented here is not only radical, but potentially inflammatory. But would be a misunderstanding. As Shakespeare said: "All the world's a stage and all the men and women merely players." In other words, if life here in our world is a play, which essentially it is, then each of us, whatever role we play, is an actor whose role at any given time in the play may be of child or adult, villain or hero, leader or follower, but as actors, as souls, again, we are all equally worthy of all that life has to offer.
We don't believe, of course, that a child deserves to be less safe, healthy or happy than an adult does, but we do know that a child is not ready to provide for the common good, yet, nor offer guidance, leadership or wisdom for others, yet, either. They are still learning how to survive and thrive in physical reality and must be taught this by their elders. Children, and young souls, are narcissistic by nature, in other words. Mature and old souls are more altruistic and giving by nature. This is why old souls live lifetimes primarily as teachers in one way or another.
After you read the soul age material, look around you, at everyone, and consider what soul age you are dealing with in each relationship. You will find your perspective and your levels of frustration shifting when you do. And remember, don't give the car keys to a 3-year old!
"PARTNER REPLACEMENT FANTASY?" NOT OFFICIALLY A SYNDROME... YET!
Please, APA... no PRFS! It's bad enough I had to write a post decrying your label, "Foot Orgasm Syndrome," in a recent post.
[NOTE: APA = American Psychiatric Association; PRFS = Partner Replacement Fantasy Syndrome]
Yes, there is an article on this subject. It's in Slate, and it asks the question of whether or not it's "emotional cheating" on a love partner to be fantasizing about somebody else during sex? In a pretty responsible way, the article doesn't take a simplistic yes or no position, nor does the resident expert quoted throughout the piece, David Schnarch, a renowned sex therapist who helps long-term couples work through waning desires. Schnarch says, and I agree with him to this extent, that the only time fantasizing is a "problem" in a relationship is if it regularly takes the place of actual sex with your partner.
True, David, though relevant here is that most people don't know the difference between a fetish and a perversion.
A fetish is a fascination, or "fixation," as Freud called it, with a particular act or object that gets the fetishist aroused, which then leads to a desire for actual sex and orgasm. (See FPL post HERE.)
A perversion, on the other hand, is a fixation that takes the place of actual sex with a partner, or the orgasm experience.
Just a little technical information, folks.
Schnark goes on to talk about why fantasies of others may come into the sex life of loving partners:
“Boredom in the bedroom isn’t a sign that you’re not sexually compatible; it’s a sign that you need to take another growth step that will make the two of you nervous."
Yes to that, David, if by "nervous" you mean in reaction to being open, revealed and excited, as in charged up with Eros! (Read the amazing Pathwork Guide Lecture on "Love, Eros and Sex" HERE)
Great sex, which at the highest levels comes with Eros, makes us nervous, because it blows us out of our limited physical vibration and connects us with higher dimensions of our selves, as high as 9th dimensional consciousness in some cases. That's high!
Here's a quote from another great Pathwork Guide Lecture, "The Spiritual Symbolism and Significance of Sexuality":
"In the human realm the power of sexuality can, in its most ideal form, be the greatest 'representative' of spiritual existence. There is no other human experience that conveys so fully what spiritual bliss, oneness, and timelessness are: the timeless Now, beyond the confines of time."
So, look, folks, and I do mean "look." Don't judge. Just observe, see where you're at. If you use fantasy in a way that enhances your sex life with your partner, then why not? Even better if you can share your fantasy with your partner to heat and stir things up even more. On the other hand, if your fantasy life is a substitute for the real thing, then some self-work in the area of intimacy might be called for.
Finally, you can read the FPL "Truth About Everything, Part One: Sex is the Most Powerful Way to Access Source Energy" HERE.
Oh. And have fun!
[NOTE: APA = American Psychiatric Association; PRFS = Partner Replacement Fantasy Syndrome]
Yes, there is an article on this subject. It's in Slate, and it asks the question of whether or not it's "emotional cheating" on a love partner to be fantasizing about somebody else during sex? In a pretty responsible way, the article doesn't take a simplistic yes or no position, nor does the resident expert quoted throughout the piece, David Schnarch, a renowned sex therapist who helps long-term couples work through waning desires. Schnarch says, and I agree with him to this extent, that the only time fantasizing is a "problem" in a relationship is if it regularly takes the place of actual sex with your partner.
True, David, though relevant here is that most people don't know the difference between a fetish and a perversion.
A fetish is a fascination, or "fixation," as Freud called it, with a particular act or object that gets the fetishist aroused, which then leads to a desire for actual sex and orgasm. (See FPL post HERE.)
A perversion, on the other hand, is a fixation that takes the place of actual sex with a partner, or the orgasm experience.
Just a little technical information, folks.
Schnark goes on to talk about why fantasies of others may come into the sex life of loving partners:
“Boredom in the bedroom isn’t a sign that you’re not sexually compatible; it’s a sign that you need to take another growth step that will make the two of you nervous."
Yes to that, David, if by "nervous" you mean in reaction to being open, revealed and excited, as in charged up with Eros! (Read the amazing Pathwork Guide Lecture on "Love, Eros and Sex" HERE)
Great sex, which at the highest levels comes with Eros, makes us nervous, because it blows us out of our limited physical vibration and connects us with higher dimensions of our selves, as high as 9th dimensional consciousness in some cases. That's high!
Here's a quote from another great Pathwork Guide Lecture, "The Spiritual Symbolism and Significance of Sexuality":
"In the human realm the power of sexuality can, in its most ideal form, be the greatest 'representative' of spiritual existence. There is no other human experience that conveys so fully what spiritual bliss, oneness, and timelessness are: the timeless Now, beyond the confines of time."
So, look, folks, and I do mean "look." Don't judge. Just observe, see where you're at. If you use fantasy in a way that enhances your sex life with your partner, then why not? Even better if you can share your fantasy with your partner to heat and stir things up even more. On the other hand, if your fantasy life is a substitute for the real thing, then some self-work in the area of intimacy might be called for.
Finally, you can read the FPL "Truth About Everything, Part One: Sex is the Most Powerful Way to Access Source Energy" HERE.
Oh. And have fun!
100 REASONS NOT TO HAVE KIDS!
THIS was on the Huffington Post. Excellent reading. My personal favorite is Number 100!
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