"Z" wrote in this question on the ORAL CHARACTER STRUCTURE:
"I really am this type...Can I fix it (as a problem) or just live with it?"
Dear Z - Character structures can be "broken thorough," and ultimately dismantled, though scars may remain, but you really wouldn't want to "fix" one. The reason a character structure doesn't work for an adult is because, like the cocoon of a caterpillar (child), you outgrow it once you've become a butterfly (adult). How to go about the dismantling process begins with intention and a willingness to do whatever it takes to get free. If that is there, then pursuing a full spectrum, mind-body-spirit therapy will work.
Thanks for the question.
All my best,